Volume 10                                                                    Number 2                                                   September 2001 

 A Virtual Shtetl in the Making 

The globalizing power of the internet is a remarkable thing to observe. As we have come to rely more increasingly on electronic delivery, awareness of this initiative spreads in wonderful ways.  It has certainly slashed my mailing costs, since more than half of you now read the online edition of this Newsletter, but that is really a side-show. What is dramatic, is our ability to reach out and find one another in a satisfying way, that helps us celebrate the commonality of our roots, regardless of how far-flung we may be from one another. The story, in this issue, of how we established a relationship with Gutka Salutsky-Boyarsky, is but a beginning.

 As I approach the completion of translating the Trilogy of Volkovysk Yizkor books, this  experience has yielded further cases in point. We discovered a pocket of interest in Houston, TX, thanks to Lissa Streusand, a scion of Volkovysk whose father also came from the nearby shtetl of Svislucz. She has harbored a desire for over fifty years to see this work rendered in English. Kindly, she has also supplied me with all of the book reviews that were published when Dr. Moses Einhorn’s landmark two-volume work appeared in 1948.

Through this endeavor, I became aware that the father of the last Rabbi of Zelva, Rabbi Mikhl Kossowsky, was the next-to-last Rabbi of Volkovysk, prior to his emigration to South Africa. That was Rabbi Yitzhak Kossowsky. To my delight, I have found a son and grandson of these men, Rabbi Zalman Kossowsky, as the spiritual leader of the Jewish community of Zurich, Switzerland &endash; and he likes using e-mail too! For those of you who can read a little German, his biography can be seen by visiting:  http://www.icz.org/rabbinat/kossowsky.shtml, or just click on his picture to the right.
 
 

It will get better. Meanwhile, I’m coming down the home stretch on the third volume of the Volkovysk trilogy. With luck, I’ll be ready for the printer by year-end.  You’ll be hearing from me accordingly.


 Family Births


Gaya, a daughter, in the winter of 2001, sister of  Saphir, & Daniel, to Tamar (Tami) Freidin, and her husband, Asaf Vishnia. Granddaughter of Dr. Nahum Freidin

Lia, a daughter, in August 2001, to Keren & Yaniv Kimchi, Granddaughter to Rachel Sha’anani.

Mazel-Tov to the parents, grandparents, and a special Mazel-Tov to Miriam Freidin on the birth of two  great-granddaughters.

Jonathan, a son, in August 2001, brother to Yaela & Gilead, to Ophrah & Chaim Waxman. Mazel-Tov to the parents, and grandparents, Ammihud & Orah Gilony.
 
 

 Mazel Tov to All!
 
 
 


In Memoriam


Sidney Bloom, father of Connie Fried, passed away on 21Mar01

Yigal Zomer, age 34, was killed in an aircraft accident near Tel Aviv beach. Son of Riva & Yehuda Zomer, grandson of  the late Chaim Jonah Gilony,  He was unmarried. The funeral took place on Sunday, May 13 in the Yarkon burial-ground near Tel Aviv.

Molly Moskowitz, age 90, 11July01 in Florida. Pre-deceased by her husband, Irving, she is survived by children, Donald  Philip, & Amy Schoenfeld, several grandchildren, and a great-grandchild.

We are saddened to report a double loss to the Borodovsky family in Argentina:

Leibeh Borodovsky passed away in Buenos Aires at age 64 in early July.


His mother, Rosa Borodovsky died, nine days later, at age 92.  She was the sole surviving sister of Faygel Garber York. The picture of Rosa, to the right, was taken in Buenos Aires in 1997, during one of my trips to Argentina.
 
 






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We extend the sincerest condolences of our entire family of readers to those who have been bereaved.
 



News from All Over


Family members remain on the go. Rabbi David Cantor has left Winnipeg to take the position of Rabbi of Congregation Beth Israel of Bangor, Maine,  starting on July 1, 2001. We also extend Mazel-Tov to David  & Christine on the birth of Avniel Koly on 26May01, weighing in at 8lbs 14 oz, 21 inches long, a baby brother for Joash. The proud grandparents, Allen & Gloria Cantor also report that daughter Diana completed a Diploma course in Education in “Visual and Performing Arts,” graduating in Vancouver. ...

Dr. Benjamin Z. & Rose Anne Freed, have moved into a new home in Marietta, Georgia, as he continues to teach Anthropology at nearby Emory University... Ammihud Gilony reports moving the offices of his law practice to new, expanded quarters in Tel-Aviv
 

We had a ‘double-header’ over the summer in our family: our youngest son, Robert Ian Berger, graduated High School, and became the sixth and final Berger sibling to matriculate as a freshman at Rutgers University. 
We become ‘empty-nesters,’ for the first time in - I don’t remember...


 

Simultaneously, older brother, Dr. Daniel Andrew Berger successfully completed his residency in Obstetrics & Gynecology. He and his family have moved from Pensacola, Florida, to Scranton, PA, where he has joined an OB/Gyn practice...
 
 

We also hear from David Frum that he has joined President Bush’s staff as his speech writer... 

Ronit Ritz has  graduated from Beersheba University with a degree in Industrial Engineering this  July. She and her ‘steady’ (also a school classmate) are of to Spain, for several months, to study Spanish...
 

We joyfully report the Bar Mitzvah of Daniel Brickman, in May,  son of Bruce & Judy Brickman, and grandson of Bea Melnick and the late Dr. Jacob Melnick.  A goodly turnout of family attended. Daniel had created a fascinating ‘wall of pictures,’ that traced his family tree, and I was afforded an opportunity to give a summary of the Freidin family immigrant experience in coming to America. Equally heartwarming, was a meeting with Iris Sitkin, a Zelva scion of the Lev Family, whose husband, we discovered, is a cousin to the late Dr. Melnick...


We are also advised of the Bat Mitzvah of Rinat Gilony in Israel during August, daughter of Dr. Yair & Dalia Gilony... 

Wedding bells continue to ring across the continents...Linda Frum, daughter of Dr. Murray Frum, was married to Mr. Howard Sokolowski on 22Apr01 in Toronto... 

...and in Israel, Nir Sabarov, son of Zipporah and the late Roni Sabarov, grandson of Shmuel and the late Michlah Sabarov, married Adi Cohen...

Adding to the festive air are some new arrivals to the family of landsleit... Great-aunt Mae-Lee Billet-Ziskin advises that a young lady,  Bailey Rose Billet was born 20February01 &endash; 8 pounds 6 ounces, 21inches to Matthew & Ellen Billet. Proud first-time grandparents are Jerry & Monica Billet (as semi-official record keeper, I can note that Bailey shares this birthday, one year later, with the Muffin of San Mateo: Zachary Evan Berger, my oldest grandson...)...
 


Laura &Mike Freidman are thrilled to announce the birth of their second grandchild, Madison’s brother, Ryan William Cieri on 29May01, to daughter Lisa, weighing 8 pounds 4 ounces. Special Mazel-Tov to Great-Grandfather Abe Friedman in Florida...
 
 
 


From the Moorstein clan, Dr. Ruth Lapid- Gortzak & Oren Lapid are pleased to announce the arrival, on  6-8-2001, of a sister to Noamand Eran, named Hadar weighing 3060 gr (8lbs, if my calculator didn’t lie to me.)...
 
 

Our families have a tight-lipped way of marking the passage of time in Israel. We were pleased to hear that Roy Fisher had completed his military service, but now it is the turn of his younger brother, Itai to enter service. And, on 20May01, Shlomi Wasserzier entered the IDF, while Shiri Freidin joins older sister Shani in Kheyl Nashim ....


A Senior Corner

We add our congratulations and best wished to Manya Ritz on the occasion of her 95th birthday.

On 4Apr01, the Ritz and Neutra families celebrated this event at her new apartment in the assisted living complex at  Bayit Bakfar in Kfar Saba near Ra’anana.

Odded Ritz notes how much his late sister, Maxima Neutra was missed at this event, which was attended by all her grandchildren and great-grandchildren (except Ronen Neutra who is now working in the USA). It is suitable to note at this point, that this past spring, the Neutra family published a wonderful memorial book in honor of Maxima, which chronicles her life in words and pictures...
 
 
 
 

                                                                                                           Manya Ritz and Son, Odded

 
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Leah Ray Lambert advises that her  mother, Yetta Rubin, has not been well. While past 90 years of age, she is still very sharp mentally, but heart problems and  blindness make these very sad times for her.  She is in the hospital again, but Leah is planning to visit her in Pittsburgh after Rosh Hashana...
 



Feature Story
 Gutka Finds Her Family & Landsleit

It was Mike Friedman who first thought to consult the records of the U.S. Holocaust Museum in Washington, DC, and discovered in April, that they had a list of living Holocaust survivors in the USA. Among those names, he found Gertrude, ‘Gutka’ Salutsky-Boyarsky, from Dereczin, living in West Palm Beach, FL.  After calling her, he arranged to visit her when he was in Florida visiting his father, Abe Friedman.

When he told me about this, I instantly recognized her name, as a fighting partisan who had written a memoir for the Dereczin Memorial Book. It was not long afterward that we had our first telephone conversation, which warmed up very quickly. Her greatest lament to me, was that she felt that she was without an extended family, though she was fortunate in having raised both a son and daughter in this country. It was my great pleasure to disabuse her of that idea, and I immediately put her in touch with Dr. Robert Marshall of Selkirk, NY, the Salutsky Family Genealogist, and Philip & Elaine Shapiro in Encino, CA. Philip is descended from Salutskys on his mother’s side.
 


 

Since Gutka summers in Monticello, NY, the outreach to embrace accelerated. In addition to meeting with Bob Marshall, after she arrived in June, the Shapiro Family asked her to be a special guest at their family reunion in Toronto, July 5-8.

I was pleased to attend, and play a role as a speaker in a very warm get-together. The host, Lorne Shapiro gave an overview of Eastern European shtetl life, with emphasis on Zelva, and I gave an anecdotal account of my ‘journey’ in doing genealogical work. Lee Feldscher, the Shapiro Family Genealogist presented his work on computerizing the extensive Shapiro Family tree, and Gloria Cantor regaled us with the recollection of her journey from the wilds of Saskatchewan to Philadelphia, as a young  girl.

Gutka gave a moving account of her trials in the Naliboki Forest, as a partisan in Bulak’s Pobeda Battalion. It was there that she met her Zelva cousins, Moshe and Casrael Salutsky (Philip Shapiro’s uncles), but even in the ensuing years, she never fully explored the extent of her family’s presence in the New World.

Hardly a week goes by now, that one or another of us doesn’t talk to Gutka. We arranged for her to meet Faygel Garber York, and that afternoon in Monticello was inspiring, as these two wonderful ladies explored the vicissitudes of their early lives, and sought for points of commonality in their past. Helen & Jerry Feldscher were there, along with their son  Lee and his family. Another find was revealed, when Helen determined that Gutka was also related directly to the Shapiro family. And it turned out, that one of Gutka’s classmates from Dereczin is a neighbor and friend to Faygel in Monsey, NY.
 

Being in Monticello conjured up the name of the Milechman family, in which the late Helene Milechman is the daughter of Rae Salutsky Menikoff-Winehouse. Gutka recalled meeting Rae in Florida, after Moshe Salutsky connected the two of them, and it was Gutka herself who then unearthed the record of that meeting, in Rae’s memoir in the Shapiro Book of Remembrances.

There is no way we can put a price on the emotional satisfaction that this ‘re-discovery’ and bringing together of family members has given to those directly &endash; and indirectly &endash; affected. This is but one small facet of why those who actively pursue an interest in family origins, and the preservation of folklore and history, do not do so in vain.




Wishing You One and All
A Happy & Healthy New Year!
5762 - 2001
 
 The
 Freidins of Zelva
 Family Newsletter

Editor-Publisher............................. Jack S. Berger  Web Host............................................. Randi Ostro  Publisher Emeritus.................... Samuel K. Rubin

The Family Newsletter of the Freidins of Zelva is published periodically to foster communications between the descendants of TANHUM YITZHAK FREIDIN ritual slaughterer of the town of Zelva in the Grodno Province of Belarus. For further information, the Editor-Publisher may be reached as follows:

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