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A Quiet Few Months
It isn't as if nothing has been going on, but it has been relatively still since I last published the Newsletter. This will account for the delay till April, whereas I normally write in February, or March the latest. During October, we traveled to the West, largely in connection with a reunion of my colleagues, which was held in Las Vegas. We subsequently went on to California to visit with my son David and his family, during which time we did get to see Dr. Allen & Christina Rubin who were in the Bay Area for a convention.
We are saddened to report that my mother-in-law, Frances Edith Krantz Kleinberg passed away early in February (see obituary below), and note thereby that we are continuing to lose the most venerable among us. Despite this, reports of new life also flow in, giving us the comfort in knowing that the continuity of life does go on.
If you check the masthead, you will see that this is the seventeenth year in which we are publishing this Family Newsletter. This thought was brought home to me, when Devon Rubin wrote to me concerning the Bar Mitzvah of his son, Avi Samuel. It seems the young man wanted to partner -- and memorialize -- a Freidin Family Member who died too young in the Holocaust to have a Bar Mitzvah. It also caused me to verify that we had recorded Avi's birth on March 18, 1995 in the following edition of the Freidin Family Newsletter, which at that time was still being published in hard copy. Tempus fugit! Since it is likely that Avi has already celebrated his Bar Mitzvah by now, we pass along a Mazel Tov to all the Rubins!
In this connection, I once again want to urge all of you to write to me. This is not a work of fiction: the content depends on what you let me know, and I am not --repeat -- not a mind reader!
I hope that you all have a prosperous and enjoyable summer in the coming months, and I look forward to communicating with you once again, around the time of the new Jewish New Year.
מזל טוב !
Adelyn Claire Shapiro, a bouncing baby daughter, on October 11, 2007, to Jason & Camerin Shapiro at 7lbs 6oz and 20 inches long. Elaine & Philip Shapiro proudly announce that they are "thrilled to have Adelyn as number six of their precious grandchildren...."
Raphael Moshe Goldsmith born to Farrell & Joanna Goldsmith, at 6AM on Wednesday December 19, 2007, weighing in at 7lbs 12 oz and 21 inches long. The new little youngster joins his older siblings, Miriam, Elisheva, Simcha Hersh and Levi Yitzhak. Special best wishes to grandparents, Alan & Fran Rosenblatt and great-grandmother Sylvia Krugman.
Braeden Jacob Jackelow, born to Brian & Ann Jackelow, on January 10, 2008 at 6lbs 11oz and 21 inches long. Special best wishes to first-time grandparents Eddie & Gloria Jackelow...

Shira Benvenisti, born on Friday April 18, 2008, to Yohanan & Ayelet Benvenisti, and older sister Maya & Noam. Congratulations to Odded & Jocheved Ritz on the arrival of a new grandchild... While the parents are deliberated about a suitable name for the little lady, she was being called 'Betten' (Hebrew for 'Tummy').
Mazel Tov to
One &All!
Raymond Krantz, uncle of Carol L. Berger and younger brother of Frances Edith Krantz Kleinberg, in Palm Beach, Florida during October 2007, at age 84. He is survived by his wife, Bertha Lee Krantz (nee Blonder), and his children Kenneth and Noreen and their families...
Israel Drory, father of Nurit and Asher Drory, in Winnipeg, on December 16, 2007 just short of his 96th birthday. In writing to me about her father, Nurit had the following to say:
"...My father was a complex person, with contradictory personality traits and a history that parallels the history of the Jews from Poland, who arrived in then-Palestine in 1938, off the coast, in the middle of the night, with only the shirts on their backs. He lived in Hadera and then Kiryat Frostiz until he left for a visit to Canada in late 1949. My mother, brother, and I, made the trip 18 months later.
My parents bought a grocery store of their own in 1960 (after renting one for five years downtown) and built a successful business until 1979, when my dear mother Itka (nee Sztokman) died at age 66. A year later, my father returned to Israel and lived there with Hadassa Degani for 17 peaceful years. In 1997, I brought our father back to Canada, where he and I got a chance to know each other better. I feel fortunate for that, and do miss him very much..."
Frances Edith Krantz Kleinberg, mother of Carol L. Berger of Mahwah, NJ, and Dr. Susan Kleinberg-Flemming, of Surrey, in the U.K., passed away in Boca Raton, Florida, on Tuesday, February 5, 2008, at the age of 92 1/2. My mother-in-law was a 1937 graduate of the Hartford Connecticut School of Nursing. She met and married my late father-in-law Dr. Morris Kleinberg, when she went to work in New York City after her graduation. They lived together for sixty-four years, until my father-in-law passed away on April 16, 2005, as was previously reported. She was truly his helpmeet in every sense of that word. Emerging from the hardscrabble life, of being one of twelve children, she sought and won the education she worked for, that became the passport to mainstreaming herself into the great American middle class. She lived to see eight great-grandchildren come into the world, in addition to the eight grandchildren that her children gave her. She is also survived by three younger siblings, her sister Lillian Shapiro, of Scottsdale, AZ, and brothers, Irvin Krantz of West Hartford, CT and Dr. Milton Krantz of Waverley, RI.
She was a tough old lady, but she was our tough old lady, and we will miss her very much...
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News from All Over
From the 'You Can't Be Too Careful' Dept:
Our own Gertie 'Gutka' Boyarsky had an unfortunate fall, up in Monticello, NY, shortly before the Jewish New Year in 2007, and ended up in the hospital recovering from a variety of fractures and contusions. She is back in Florida since November 2007, and I spoke to her briefly before the Passover holiday. Stoically getting on with it, she recognizes the limitations of her years, but appears to be in good spirits...
Not to be outdone, my uncle Joshua Freed got himself sideswiped by an automobile while crossing the street near his home, after buying the Sunday New York Times a couple of weekends ago. He was lucky to get away with some bruises and contusions, and no broken bones...
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Ike Siskind, a Dereczin scion, who lives in my area, reports that his wife Marilyn underwent back surgery recently, and is recuperating. We send her a refuah shleyma from everyone...
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On a very much happier note, we are delighted to report the marriage of Ortal Wasserzier to Itzik Basson, in Ness Tziona, Israel, on November 11, 2007. In addition to congratulating the new couple, we wish a Mazel Tov to the bride's parents, Avraham & Malka Wasserzier, and grandparents, Moshe & Shoshana Freidin. Here is a photo taken during the happy occasion:
From the Left: Itzik, the Groom and Ortal the Bride,
Malka & Avi Wasserzier with the bride's younger sister, Mor.
The ritual attire follows the Iraqi custom of the groom's family, who come from that part of the world. An absolutely hilarious exchange took place between Malki and myself over what she was calling 'China.' I thought she was sending me a piece of crockery, until it became clear that she was trying to express her pronunciation of the 'Henna' ceremony where the bride's hands are painted in Henna, following the custom of the Iraqi lands whose grandparents emigrated to Israel from there.
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I was delighted to receive a copy of "Abe & Ida Friedman and Their Family" published by Michael Friedman, which was a culmination of many years of genealogical research that Mike had undertaken. In this book, he traces his own family genealogy, with substantive roots in Zelva. As we have previously mentioned, Mike is a scion of the Bereshkovsky clan of Zelva. Because of the marriage of Atara ("Kreineh") Bereshkovsky, to my grandfather's older brother, Zvi Hirsch ("Hirschkeh") Freidin, we share a number of cousins in common. Regrettably, it is those who are among the many who perished in the Holocaust. The book is a valuable addition to the written record, that helps to capture the history of our little corner of the Pale of Settlement. I was equally gratified for Mike's acknowledgment to the work we did on Sefer Zikaron Zelva, and its translation into English, as The Zelva Memorial Book.
Remembrance
It is axiomatic to many of us, that an ongoing effort is required to preserve the memory of what happened to the Jewish people during the terrible years of the Holocaust, to assure that this type of calamity never befalls us again. In that spirit, Jocheved (nee Olewski) Ritz, participated in a cornerstone-laying ceremony in October 2005, at the site of the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp, where she was born. I reproduce the text of her remarks below.
See: http://www.americangathering.com/issues/July2005Tog.pdf
http://www.bergenbelsen.de/pdf/Gedenkveranstaltung_2005_e.pdf ( Text of Jochi’s speech in English)Address By Jochi Ritz-Olewski, Israel
Occasion of the Cornerstone Laying Ceremony in 2005
Ladies and Gentlemen, Dear Guests,
I must admit that I am very excited to stand here today at the ceremony of laying the cornerstone for the foundation of the new exhibition building in Bergen-Belsen.
I, Jochi Ritz-Olewski, daughter of Rachel Zelmanowicz from Bendin and Raphael Olewski from Osienciny, Poland, may they rest in peace, who were liberated in Bergen-Belsen, am proud to represent here today the second generation of the Holocaust survivors, especially those who were born, like me, here in Bergen-Belsen in the DP Camp.
With me stand here today members of the delegation of Irgun Sh’erit Hapleta in Israel, of which my father Raphael Olewski was chairman for many years, until the day he passed away. Most of you knew my father, who from the first minutes of liberation, took care of the survivors, in his role in the Jewish Central Committee, which was running the DP Camp. He went on caring for the Belsen survivors also after they immigrated to Israel, dedicating all his life to their rehabilitation and to commemorating the lessons of the Holocaust. For this purpose he also wrote his book “The Tear” and we donated a copy to the library of the museum. In the name of the delegation headed by Dov Zelmanovicz, Chairman of the Israeli organization, and especially the second generation, I wish to thank our hosts for organizing our presence here today, enabling us to take part in this historic and exciting moment.
We appreciate very much the efforts of the government of Niedersachsen, and especially yours, Minister Bernd Busemann, together with your colleagues, who are practically taking care of the memorial site and the new exhibition building, which should reflect the story of the terrible suffering and the wondrous rehabilitation of the people in Bergen-Belsen. This is vital and necessary for the presentation of the historical truth and the documentation of the collective memory upon which we raise our children and grand-children. It should express the spirit and contribution of the survivors of Bergen-Belsen and the second generation in Israel and America. The social and cultural activity of the survivors continued also after they arrived in Israel and America and produced a lot of material, which was donated by us to the museum.
I hope the museum will indeed succeed in representing not only the suffering but also the Rehabilitation. It is almost unbelievable how the survivors, after surviving the Death Camps, being rescued from the fire of hell, could still find inside themselves a spirit strong enough to build up here the biggest DP Camp in Europe and run it as an autonomic state. It is symbolic to me that my parents and my uncle, the Celle Rebbe Israel-Moshe Olewski, and many of the survivors who are with us here, took an active and influential part in the Survival and Rehabilitation. The intensive and impressive activity of the DP Camp was for the survivors a first step on their way to rehabilitation and their victory over the terrible horrors they had experienced a short time before. No wonder that back at our parents’ home we used to celebrate April 15th as the day my parents were re-born.
The prophet Ezekiel expresses this accurately: “And I tell thou: In your blood thou shall live! In your blood thou shall live!!”
My friends born in Bergen-Belsen and I symbolize the Revival of the Jewish people. Our coming into the world was regarded by our parents as a miracle, after all they had been through, and symbolized for them a new beginning and hopes for a bright future. As the representative of the second generation I see in the cornerstone ceremony of this new exhibition building an important historical step and I expect to come and visit here with my children and grand-children when the work is completed.
Minister Busemann, today I call upon you and the management of this memorial site to let us, the representatives of the second generation, take an active part in all stages of building this exhibition, because as a matter of fact, we are the ones who now move forward filling in for the survivors. This is most important for us and for the next generations.
I wish to request as well that all certificates and texts presented in the exhibition be presented also in English and Hebrew, not only in German, so that the museum will have an international status rather than stay a local episode. The British general Glyn-Hughes, which the hospital where I was born here nearby, was named after, said in his testimony after the liberation:
”Belsen is an experience which should never be forgotten. In Belsen we’ve learned what tolerance and helping other human beings mean. In Belsen we have seen the meaning of the moral spirit and the power of Ideals, who give people the ability to go through the most terrible conditions, and lend the necessary help to those who suffer. Only the people of the camps could understand the meaning of suffering. We were witnesses only afterwards.”
Well, afterwards there is really the need to present the authentic testimony of the liberators and the liberated in a language that the whole world can understand. The step that was taken here today, by laying this cornerstone to the exhibition building, is the first step on the way to a just future, with our combined and mutual activity to promote the collective memory of the survivors of Bergen-Belsen.
Let this cornerstone be today witness to the holy mission we have all undertaken for ever and ever.
Address By Jochi Ritz-Olewski,
Israel
Occasion of the Opening Ceremony at Bergen Belsen, 28 October 2007
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Freidins of Zelva
Family NewsletterEditor-Publisher................................................. Jack S. Berger Webmacherkeh.................................................... Sharon Javer Publisher Emeritus..........................................Samuel K. Rubin
The Family Newsletter of the Freidins of Zelva is published periodically to foster communications between the descendants of TANHUM YITZHAK FREIDIN ritual slaughterer of the town of Zelva in the Grodno Province of Belarus. For further information, the Editor-Publisher may be reached as follows:
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